"I'm the type of woman who likes to enjoy herselves in peace."
~ Alice Walker (1989)
Mind Caviar, Vol. 4 Annual Issue, 2003
to Use Everday Items as Sex Toys
by Jamie Joy Gatto with Guest Author Tina Hess
Dear Jamie Joy,
I like to use sex toys to masturbate, but I am tired of using the same old ones. I'm looking for new ideas. Also-- sex toys are so expensive. Do you have any suggestions for less expensive and new or different toys?
Jamie Joy Says:
Thank you for having the courage to write. I'm proud that you take time to give yourself sexual pleasure and that you are willing to invest in yourself sexually. A great resource on masturbation tecniques and philosophy is Betty Dodson. Check out her Web site. It offers a lot of advice and information on masturbation.
referred your question (anonymously, of course) to a fellow author who
is writing a book about this subject titled 29 Ways to Use Everyday
Items as Sex Toys by 29
Ways Press. She's done so much research and has so many great ideas,
I thought it would be fun to get her input in answering your question.
Tina Hess has come up with some very creative ideas. Read on...
Tina Hess Says:
Try using these ideas to spice up your masturbatory play. You can read about all twenty-nine items and scores of uses for each of them in my upcoming book. Until the book is published, here is some quick advice.
If you'd like more information, have any questions, or if you'd like to be on my mailing list to get more information regarding my forthcoming book, Email me.
Candles and Ice
Using hot candle wax along with ice cubes can be a mind-blowing experience when youíre masturbating. This method, however, takes more preparation than others mentioned.
Select candles from around the house. Votive candles are the best because the wax pools around the wick. Place them where you will plan on being. Then fill a bowl full of four to six ice cubes to place beside the candles.
Using candle wax and ice isnít simply a way to get off. It is a way to heat up your sexual mood and to make your body beg you for an orgasm.
ways to use candles and ice:
Baby Bottle Brushes
bottle brushes are good for more than just washing bottles or glasses.
The bristles can be exciting to use. And, the handle is also a good
substitute for a thin dildo. To use the bristles, soak the brush in warm
water. This will soften the bristles and make them less abrasive.
They can be used like a feather by gently trailing them
Penetration can be achieved two ways with the bottle brush:
Several objects have many uses, and the baby bottle brush isnít any different. Alternate the ends of the brush in your vagina. Include clitoral stimulation using the brush also. You can also treat it as a feather and glide it against your body and over your breasts before masturbation.
Itís a really good thing Thanksgiving comes only once a year. That leaves the turkey baster free the rest of the time. If you donít have one, any type of syringe type item will do (without the needle of course).
To start, fill the baster with warm water. You donít want it hot, but make the water warm enough that when you touch the shaft, you can feel the heat. Ideally, make it a degree or two higher than your lover would feel against your skin. You will insert the baster into your vagina, using it as a cock or a dildo. Slide it in and out, if you want, but make sure not to release the water. Yet. Now, rub your clit with your fingers. Try putting pressing one finger on your clit and two on either side, pressing inward like a pair of tweezers. The sensations are amazing.
Remember to keep the baster inside your vagina. Itís not necessary to move it in and out. Do whatever feels best to you. As orgasm approaches, release the water thatís in the baster slowly, preferably with six to seven squirts. The liquid will feel like come. The water is not necessary to include for you to use this object as a sex toy. But, if you like to fantasize while you masturbate, it will allow you to ďfeelĒ your loverís orgasm along with yours.
Another way to use a turkey baster is to place it on your clit, open side down. Squeeze the baster and release, allowing it to suck on you. It wonít take long until you climax.
If you look in your kitchen and find you donít have a baster, itís one new gadget youíre going to want to buy.
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